Being in Love..a call for trouble?

‘pehla nasha pehla khumaar..naya pyaar hai nayaa intezaar’
What a cool romantic song this is from the movie Jo Jeeta Wahi Sikander which is one among my favourite movies as well. Anyone who listens to this song would definitely want to fall in love once in a lifetime atleast.
But hey, wait! Even though I have never been in love I still can understand the feelings of each and every word in this song or any other classic romantic songs. It’s quite strange but true and you would also agree with me that to be romantic or to get the feeling of being in love to some extent, it’s not a necessity that we have to be in love. And songs like these are very tempting and I bet on you that if you get carried away by these filmy love songs and begin experimenting on yourself.. then god must help you.

Now why all of a sudden I’ am talking about this topic?
Most of the blogs on the topic of love is always an instant hit. You would see that the count of hits on this topic is ever increasing. This is a topic which is least discussed in full flow because many are uncomfortable to discuss what they feel about love in public forums and get embarrassed, but still it’s a favourite topic among all young brigades. This is just the topic which always interests all of us and so I decided to be bold and write something on it..hehe

Is falling in love a call for trouble? I feel yes and no need to explain it why and how..we all know its pros and cons.
But I have never understood the mindset of those people who go out of their way to protect there love interests. If I get a hold of a person scratching his head over such things I would say…’Boss, be practical, your life is not a 3 hour bollywood love flick. The ground reality is you turn every other potential relationship into a tidsy bitsy affair of confusions in your mad run and end up being nowhere. This life is not just about two persons in love, open your eyes and see that you still have to live up to the expectations of the society and family around you’.

I agree.. I too had few infatuations in the past like any other guys... but may be I was just lucky enough that my way of looking at things, the way I was brought up, my inhibitions due to few health issues and my friends circle made sure that I did not fall into any unwanted love traps. Infatuation is human but turning your back on your family for this infatuation is inhuman.
Having said that I was witness to few friends who have fallen in the so called love pits, some being successful with a happy ending or a rather happy beginning of marriage life and I do have some friends on the other hand who got dumped very unfortunately and few remained unlucky and could not reach till marriage and still carry that sweet pain of love failure for their entire life.

But who knows what will happen tomorrow… as they say ‘love happens’ and cannot be forced or controlled …because I also get carried away very easily if not in control. I may not have met that person till now for whom I would go all the way, lose my mind and take some harsh foolish decisions as many in love would do..I believe I won’t get this chance ever in my life and even if I fall for someone I would just pray it would be with a person whom would be accepted by everyone in my family.

Ok, let me stop here..before I get carried away and talk more about this uncomfortable topic.